1. Nạp thái:The groom's family visits the bride's family to announce the groom's intention to marry the bride.
2. Vấn danh: The groom's family formally asks for the bride's name, age, education, ancestry, and family circumstances.
3. Nạp cát. The groom's family informs the bride's family that the fortune-teller has foreseen a good future for the couple.
4. Thỉnh kỳ: The groom's family asks the bride's family to determine a proper day for the wedding.
5. Nạp tế: At the appointed time, the groom and his family bring wedding presents to the bride's family.
6. Thân nghênh: The bride leaves her parents for her husband's house. In the past, if the bridegroom and the bride lived in the same village, the groom's family would fetch the bride in the evening.